A family. A tribe. A dynasty. Aces wanted.
Who We Are
If you’re here, you’re probably curious about something different, and something better. We’re Arvin and Gabi, and we’re looking for the right women to invite into our family.
Arvin is an education entrepreneur and a relentless iconoclast. There’s a scene in Firefly, in which Inara says to Malcolm, “You are always breaking the rules, no matter what society you're in! You don't get along with ordinary criminals either, which is why you're constantly getting in trouble.” That about sums up what Arvin is like. Arvin quickly makes diehard allies and tireless enemies wherever he goes.
Gabi is every inch the warrior queen. Unfortunately, there are not many inches (Gabi is very short). In seriousness, Gabi is honest, loyal, strong willed, unpredictable, inadvertently funny, occasionally intentionally funny. She’s a gourmet chef, master seamstress, and if you look up the word “integrity” in the dictionary, you’ll find a picture of her, because she drew it there.
If you want to meet us and see if we click, just email us at gabiarvin@gmail.com. If you’d like to learn about the overall structure of our family, read on. We’ve put years of thought and discussion into it, and you might see something you like.
The Basic Idea
We are a polygamous (specifically polygynous) family looking for Ace women who want to be part of a strong family that is passionate about creativity, working together, education, and innovation.
What We’re Seeking
Our family embraces and prizes both asexual and allosexual preferences and culture (as well as everything in between). What we’re looking for in our future warrior queens goes far beyond sex. We’re looking for people who are curious, passionate about understanding and shaping the world, who want to strive for and embody excellence. We’re working to build a mighty family that will overcome together the large and small obstacles life presents.
Children
Children and education are important to us, and we’re open to all ways of having children. If you want to have biological children with us, with or without having sexual intercourse, we are 100% open to that. If you want to contribute to the dynasty in other ways, we’re open to that as well.
Education
If you choose to have children with us, they will enjoy the best education on earth. Arvin is the founder of an elite educational company that specializes in high end, world class education. Gabrielle brings over a decade of experience in childcare and early childhood education. And we know that anyone who we end up inviting to join us will bring their own valuable insight into education.
A Culture of Respect and Consent
Here you will never be pressured or manipulated in any way to have sex with any person, or even any physical contact with any person. For example, if you choose a life of absolute celibacy, you will be cherished and respected as a member of our family.
We believe that marriage is consummated through will, trust, loyalty, and mental intimacy, not through sex.
Polygyny
Millenia ago, polygamous families created the incredible - the Taj Majal, the Twelve Tribes of the Israelites, the heroes of the Ramayana. But today, polygamy has...declined. Some polygamous families are religious cults; others are just welfare scams.
We’re working to build a better version of what existed a long time ago. We’re looking for people who want to pursue greatness as much as we do.
By the way, that’s one major reason we’re seeking Ace women. Those who are less focused on sex are often focused on things far more important for greatness. We’re looking for women who are focused on seeking the incredible.
Dating
We get to know potential wives in the normal ways. We start with a phone call, Zoom meeting, or even just an email discussion. We’re not trying to persuade anyone of anything, but rather see if there is the potential for an extraordinary relationship. We believe that any meaningful relationship needs a foundation of friendship, so we start there.
Ask us anything you like by email, or we can set up a phone call or Zoom meeting. Our email is gabiarvin@gmail.com.
Here, it’s more important that you expand your mind than you spread your legs.
Friendship and Companionship
The spark of friendship is rare. We seek and treasure that spark.
However, no one is expected or required to be friends with anyone, although politeness and courtesy are absolute requirements.
